Planning your wedding is an exciting journey, but it can sometimes feel overwhelming. With thoughtful decisions, clear priorities, and organization, you can reduce stress and focus on enjoying the process. At Labrot Studios, we’ve photographed countless weddings and learned what helps couples create a memorable and joyful experience. Here are ten essential tips for planning your wedding:
1. Define Your Vision and Priorities
Establishing your wedding values will help you make decisions that align with your vision. It also becomes your “north star” when things feel overwhelming. For example, if your goal is to create a warm and intimate experience for your closest friends and family, you’ll know to prioritize a smaller venue and personalized touches over extras that don’t align with your vision.
Before deciding, sit down with your partner and reflect on what’s truly important to both of you. Do you want a grand celebration or an intimate gathering? Is the focus on dancing, heartfelt moments, or a luxurious dinner?
Think of it this way: When the stress of planning arises, having a clear vision allows you to step back, refocus, and confidently make decisions.
2. Create a Realistic Budget
Dreams don’t have a price tag, but bringing them to life does! Start with a clear budget and break it into categories like venue, catering, photography, and attire. Stick to your priorities and allocate funds accordingly. Remember, a well-managed budget empowers you to make choices without financial stress. Budgeting doesn’t mean limiting your dream—it empowers you to spend intentionally and stress less.
Think about what matters most to you as a couple:
- Are you dreaming of a lively celebration? Invest in an exceptional DJ or live band to keep the energy high and the dance floor packed.
- Want to show gratitude to your loved ones? Allocate an extra budget for a memorable dining experience that will leave your guests feeling appreciated.
- Are you envisioning a wedding with a touch of luxury? Choose a venue that elevates the ambiance and creates your desired elegant atmosphere.
By aligning your spending with your priorities, you can create a wedding experience that reflects what’s truly important to you.
The Exception to the Rule
The one exception to spending priorities is photography. Invest as much as you can comfortably afford—it’s worth it. (And no, this isn’t just because we’re photographers!) Your wedding photos and your spouse will be the lasting memories of your big day. Far too often, couples who cut corners on photography regret it, wishing they had prioritized capturing their once-in-a-lifetime moments.
Finding a photographer whose style aligns with your vision is equally important. If your priority is spending time with loved ones, consider a photographer who excels in capturing candid moments without lengthy, time-consuming portraits. On the other hand, if breathtaking, posed portraits are high on your list, seek out a photographer known for their artistry and skill.
At Labrot Studios, we specialize in authentically and beautifully documenting weddings, tailoring our approach to reflect what’s most important to you. Let’s chat about how we can preserve your special day in the way you’ve always dreamed of.
3. Book Your Vendors Early
Great vendors are in high demand, so secure your must-haves—like your venue and photographer—as soon as possible. Choose professionals who align with your style and values, and trust them to bring your vision to life. Remember, your photographer is one of the few vendors whose work will last long after your wedding day.
4. Keep a Flexible Timeline
A well-planned timeline is essential for a stress-free wedding day. Start by mapping out key milestones leading up to the big day: booking vendors, sending invitations, finalizing details, etc.
Build in buffers for delays on the wedding day itself—something always takes longer than planned! Share the timeline with your vendors, wedding party, and family so everyone is on the same page. For example, if you’re doing a first look, schedule time for portraits before the ceremony to ease the flow of events later. (Sample timelines below.)
5. Build a Thoughtful Guest List
Crafting a guest list can be tricky, but staying true to your vision helps. Set boundaries for plus-ones and children, and work with your families to strike a balance between their preferences and your priorities. Remember, keeping the list intimate is okay if that aligns with your values.
6. Delegate Tasks
You don’t have to do it all! Delegate responsibilities to your wedding party, family, or friends. From addressing invitations to managing RSVPs, letting others handle smaller tasks frees you up to focus on the big picture.
Consider hiring a wedding planner or day-of coordinator to handle the details. They’ll ensure your day runs smoothly, freeing you to soak in every moment without worrying about logistics. To save time, use wedding planning apps or printed invitations with pre-addressed envelopes for smaller tasks.
7. Plan for Your Guests’ Experience
Your wedding is a celebration of your love and a memorable day for your guests. Consider details that make them feel comfortable and valued, like welcome drinks, a seating area with shade, or a fun activity during cocktail hour (think photo booths or lawn games).
When it comes to the reception, the dance floor’s energy often sets the tone for the night. A lively playlist, a fantastic DJ or band, and your enthusiasm as the couple will encourage everyone to join the celebration.
8. Embrace Imperfection
No wedding is perfect, and that’s okay! Something may go off-script, but those moments often make the best stories. Focus on the big picture: celebrating your love with the most important people.
Assign a trusted friend or bridesmaid to handle any last-minute questions or unexpected issues to minimize stress. Let go of the need for perfection and embrace the love, laughter, and surprising moments that make your day unique.
9. Take Breaks from Wedding Planning
It’s easy for wedding planning to take over your life, so reconnect with your partner away from the details. Whether it’s a date night, a weekend hike, or simply relaxing together, prioritize time to recharge and focus on what matters most: your relationship.
Wedding planning is just the beginning of your marriage journey—enjoy the process without letting it consume you.
10. Be Ready for the Weather
If your wedding includes outdoor elements, have a backup plan in place. Whether it’s rain, heat, or even unexpected smoke from the wildfire season, thinking ahead ensures you and your guests are comfortable. Consider adding tents, portable fans, or pest control measures for outdoor ceremonies and receptions.
A little preparation goes a long way in keeping the day stress-free, no matter what Mother Nature has in store.
Embrace the charm of the season, and your guests will too.
Bonus Tip: Enjoy the Day
When the big day arrives, let go of the details and trust your team. This is your time to savor every moment—laugh, dance, and soak in the love surrounding you. These memories, not the little details, will mean the most.
At Labrot Studios, wedding planning should be a joyful experience. From capturing candid moments to delivering timeless portraits, we’re here to ensure your wedding day is as unique and stress-free as possible.
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Sample Timelines
Traditional Timeline (No First Look)
- 10:30 AM: Details photography (dress, rings, stationery)
- 11:00 AM: Getting ready photos
- 1:00 PM – 2:00 PM: Wedding party portraits (separate groups)
- 3:30 PM: Ceremony details captured
- 4:00 PM: Ceremony
- 4:30 PM: Family portraits and full bridal party photos
- 4:30 PM – 5:30 PM: Cocktail Hour
- 5:00 PM: Couple portraits
- 5:30 PM: Reception begins
- Wedding party entrance
- Speeches
- Dinner
- Cake cutting
- First dances
- Open dance floor
- 7:00 PM: Open dancing
- 8:00 PM – 8:30 PM: Sunset or evening portraits (ideal for summer weddings)
- 9:00 PM – 9:15 PM: Send-off photos and photography concludes
First Look Timeline
- 10:30 AM: Details photography (dress, rings, stationery)
- 11:00 AM: Getting ready photos
- 12:30 PM: First Look and couple portraits
- 2:00 PM: Bridal party photos
- 3:00 PM: Family portraits
- 3:30 PM: Ceremony details captured
- 4:00 PM: Ceremony
- 4:30 PM – 5:30 PM: Cocktail Hour
- 5:30 PM: Reception begins
- Wedding party entrance
- Speeches
- Dinner
- Cake cutting
- First dances
- Open dance floor
- 7:00 PM: Open dancing
- 8:00 PM – 8:30 PM: Sunset or evening portraits (ideal for summer weddings)
- 9:00 PM – 9:15 PM: Send-off photos and photography concludes
Building in extra time ensures you will feel free and allows you to enjoy the day to its fullest, especially with hair and make-up… things tend to take longer on the wedding day.
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